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nutter butter peanut butter fudge pie.

(sorry about the photo, not my normal surroundings, or my usual camera – but wanted to show you a slice of heaven…)

I know what you’re thinking.  “Oh, no she didn’t!”  But, yes.  Yes I did.  For Father’s Day I made a peanut butter pie for Michael, at his request.  And I made it my own way.  It was rich.  It was over the top.  and it was so, so, so good!

When it was all said and done, I thought I should tell you about it, in case you needed something decadent and rich in your refrigerator.  Who cares if it is bathing suit season, right?

I won’t delay you with many details.  Here is the recipe:

Nutter Butter Peanut Butter Fudge Pie.

Ingredients:

2 cups of nutter butter crumbs
a few table spoons of sugar
1/3 cup of melted butter
8 oz package of cream cheese
1 cup of creamy peanut butter
1 cup of white sugar
1 tablespoon of butter, softened
1 teaspoon of vanilla
1 cup of whipped cream
hot fudge

Instructions:

Combine cookie crumbs, spoonfuls of sugar and melted butter.  press into a greased pie plate and bake at 375 for 12 minutes.  let it cool a bit.Heat the hot fudge to an easily spread consistency.  In your cooled pie crust, spread a thick layer of hot fudge – then let it chill in your refrigerator.

Whip your whipping cream and set aside.  In your stand mixer’s bowl beat the cream cheese, peanut butter, sugar, softened butter and vanilla until it is creamy and smooth.  Then fold in the whipped cream until completely incorporated.

Spoon your peanut butter filling into the pie crust and let the pie chill in the refrigerator until ready to eat.

I served my pie slices with more whipped cream and some drizzles of hot fudge on the top and it was just right!  Well, just right if you like really rich and over the top!

Happy Monday to you!  It will be especially happy if you find this pie in your future!

Can you see that layer of fudge and that thick creamy peanut butter goodness?  all on top of a crunchy nutter butter crust!  OH YUM!

(this recipe was developed from recipes on these sites: runningwithtweezers.com and recipegirl.com)

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Happy Father’s Day!

This is Michael, my husband and the father of our children.   I can’t tell you how blessed I am, words don’t do it justice.  But, in his every day, usual, normal-ness – he is the best daddy around.  No one else can make up ridiculous songs, or teach a new guitar chord, or change a dirty diaper, or clean up the dinner dishes, or beat the next “impossible” level on Angry Birds, or rock somebody to sleep, or have fun at the movies, or work really hard, or paint the garage wall as good as him.  (This is just the short list.)

Today we celebrate the dad at our House and give thanks to our Heavenly Father for one of the best blessings of all!  We love you, Michael!  Thank you for being an amazing dad!

(more to come about our Father’s day tomorrow…)

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miraculous.

I’d like to take a few minutes to tell you a story.  It’s a story that has been recounted to me many times, but bears repeating again.  And if you, whoever you are, need to bolster your faith, need to believe again in a Heavenly Father who is your deliverer, healer, and miracle worker, keep reading!

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Sixteen years ago today, on June 14, 1996, Johnny, a 49 year old trouble-shooter for an electric utility (Electric Power Board AKA – EPB) was on top of a telephone pole, assisting a coworker after a storm had caused some outages. He needed to climb the pole and his coworker, Gary, rode up in the bucket or cherry-picker as they are sometimes called.

It had just rained and it was about 3pm. Johnny had worked for his employer for 27 years and had won safety awards. He was scheduled to get off shortly and had a lot on his mind. His daughter would be getting married in 3-4 weeks. He was anxious to get home.  While he and Gary were working on the pole, the lines were dead and thus Johnny wasn’t wearing the usual safety gloves as they are a cumbersome and they weren’t necessary with the lines being dead.

The two men had finished the job and were about to give the go-ahead for the power to be switched back on when Johnny noticed an insulator that needed a little maintenance. He thought, “If I don’t do this now, I’ll end up being called back up here to fix this later on.” He reached over to it not knowing the line had already been “made hot” and received a 7500 volt charge that entered his right hand and exited out of his left leg. The shock caused such a flash that cars on the road pulled over and people came out of the nearby restaurant to see what had happened. The charge would continue until a 50 amp fuse down the line blew. Johnny had received more than double the electricity used in an electric chair and was basically dead on the pole, hanging by his leather safety belt.

His coworker, Gary, did everything right. He first notified his dispatcher of the emergency, then quickly began to attempt resuscitation, which isn’t easy on top of a pole.

By this time, there was a crowd of people watching. Thankfully, he was able to bring Johnny back. For some reason though, Gary didn’t have a knife to cut Johnny’s safety belt loose. He needed to cut him loose from the belt, get him into the bucket and lower him to the ground. Just by “chance”, there happened to be a bystander in the crowd who was both a pocket-knife collector and a former minor league baseball pitcher. He just “happened” to have 7 knives on him. When Gary yelled down, asking if anyone had a knife, this man quickly responded and with one toss, the knife made it from the ground to the top of the pole for Gary to catch.

Johnny was transported to the hospital via helicopter, Lifeforce to be exact, from Signal Mountain to Erlanger.  His son was working for the EPB in a summer position when a manager called him to his office and said his father had been injured that afternoon and immediately drove him to the hospital.

When his son arrived at the hospital,  Johnny’s wife, several VPs and the CEO from the EPB were there already. The son and mother went and saw Johnny before they took him for emergency surgery. His first words were, “Honey, I’m sorry.” His right hand looked like it had been replaced by a hand made out of black coal.  He was terribly thirsty having been literally cooked from the inside out. Since he was about to go into surgery, all they could give him was a drop of water on his tongue every minute or so.

The doctors feared the worst. They amputated his right hand (he was right hand dominant) and after that first surgery, the family was told his heart, liver, lungs, any internal organs could have been irreversibly damaged. His left leg had been essentially blown up from the inside out by the electricity. They were told he might not live and if he did, he would certainly never walk. They might have to amputate his leg as well.

He spent 6 weeks in the Erlanger Burn Unit having several muscle grafts and infection debridements. It turns out, Johnny’s liver, lungs, heart and other internal organs were fine. The doctors couldn’t explain it.

While Johnny was in the Burn Unit, his daughter got married as planned. Except they held the wedding on a Saturday at Erlanger in the old Medical Mall with security keeping the media outside the building. Two nurses escorted Johnny in his bed down to the wedding. He was allowed 30 minutes out of the Burn Unit – something unheard of. There was not a single dry eye during that wedding. The groom was a mess. Everyone was a mess. Johnny gave his daughter away ; he wore a green robe that was purchased for him especially for the wedding.

During those 6 weeks of recovery, EPB employees brought home-cooked food to the burn unit every afternoon, enough to feed anyone there including the Burn Unit staff.

Johnny amazed the doctors with his recovery and his attitude. The Burn Unit staff hated to see him go as he lightened up the atmosphere there – always singing, telling jokes, etc.

After 6 weeks in the Burn Unit, Johnny was moved to Siskin Hospital. There he eventually was able to walk and they got him started learning how to write with his left hand.  Despite the significant impairment he incurred, Johnny returned to work and everyday life.

This man I’ve told you about today is my father-in-law, Johnny Day, Michael’s dad.  These days, Johnny is known as “Grandaddy” around our house.  He is not only a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, gardener and Sunday School teacher (just to name a few of the many things he does) he is a faithful testimony, living tangible evidence of God’s healing power and miraculous strength.   

Whenever I recount this story I am encouraged – and I hope you are too!  We have a Heavenly Father who is still in the business of miracles. 

This blog post was written mostly by my husband, with a narrative added by me.  🙂

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Isaac, grilling with grandaddy!

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the Ridgerator with his grandmama and grandaddy

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Em, and a good laugh on Easter Sunday morning.

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ocean revival

We’ve just returned from the beach.  Yesterday we pulled in the driveway around 6 pm.  The car was completely unloaded by 7.  Emergency trip to Target for post-trip essentials was finished by 8:30.  And all of us were tucked into our own beds at a decent hour.  Though our vacation was thoroughly refreshing, it was good to be home.

As I unpacked suitcases this morning, clothes into drawers and toiletries into cabinets, laundry into the machine, I was able to reflect on the trip just a bit.  There is one thing that always amazes me, every time I’m at the ocean.  No matter what we do, what castles we build or the foot prints we leave behind – the next day they are gone.  There is high tide and low tide.  In and out the water comes and goes; and in between the shore becomes a clean slate.

I can’t tell you how much I regularly long for this miracle to happen in my heart.  The busyness of life, interaction with my family, conflicts and resolutions – and I find myself in a rough state, the surface of my heart is completely disturbed by the activities of the day.  Sometimes it makes me uneasy.  Sometimes it leaves me restless.  Sometimes I ache.

Usually on vacation I find a bit of peace and I’m able to smooth things out- life even seems relaxing, right until its time to come home to the regular, every day hustle and bustle.  And so, the dread begins right about the time I realize it is time to leave.   *sigh*

This year, as I sat with my toes submerged in the sand, on our last day of vacation, I experienced something new.  When I prayed and told the Lord about the need for my heart’s resurfacing, I began to realize it doesn’t just have to happen on vacation.  I mean, R&R is always good. It is a necessity.  But, I don’t have to walk around, waiting for the get-away.   I watched the waves roll in and it was a visual reminder of His promise to revive my heart.  Even as those waves made the rough places smooth on the beach right before my eyes, I could feel a revival beginning in my heart, His love washing over me, replenishing the life in me, a preparation for the coming daily grind.  My heart was ready to begin again.

This is the truth:  I can live the life of mama, wife, friend, teacher, daughter, sister (etc. etc.) day after day – as the woman He has called me to be.  I can give my all and deplete myself to the very bottom of my soul, if I have to – because my Savior promises restoration. He died and rose again so that He can give me LIFE!  By myself, I can’t do it. But, with this truth secured in my heart and mind, I can survive!

Be refreshed by these Words:

Psalm 119:159-160

159 Consider how I love Your precepts;
Revive me, O Lord, according to Your lovingkindness.
160 The entirety of Your word is truth,
And every one of Your righteous judgments endures forever.

As we’ve been getting back into the routine of things, I have truly been renewed by His promises, and encouraged by His extraordinary loving kindness to me.  There is a song that has played again and again from my iPhone thru my earbuds. And as I have heard the words, the truth of His love has become more real than ever before.  His love will always bring revival to the heart of a believer.  He promises.

Still letting these words wash over my heart today:

You Revive Me:

You revive me
You revive me Lord
And all my deserts are rivers of joy
You are the treasure I could not afford
So I’ll spend myself till I’m empty and poor
All for You
You revive me Lord

Lord I have seen Your goodness
And I know the way You are
Give me eyes to see You in the dark
And Your face shines a glory
That I only know in part
And there is still a longing 
A longing in my heart.

My soul is thirsty
Only You can satisfy
You are the well that never will run dry
And I’ll praise You for the blessing
For calling me Your friend
And in Your name I’m lifting
I’m lifting up my hands. 

I’m alive
I’m alive
You breathe on me
You revive me.

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my favorites, the rat pack

I wasn’t expecting it to happen, really.  But, my sister’s boys, and my two older kids formed some sort of alliance while we were at the beach.  They were virtually inseparable.  Everything, and I do mean almost everything, was done together.  So much so that we began calling them the rat pack.  These are some of my favorite pictures of their antics!  I thought I would let you in on some of their fun…

Chocolate Chip pancakes at the Hot Diggity Diner.  We ate at this place often enough over the course of the week that they called this “their table.”

The Rat Pack walking on the beach with Papa.

Squeezed in with Nanny, after purchasing too much candy at the favored store, “It’s Sugar.”

Standing at the edge, a moment of being still – however short lived…

The gang – our crazy Rat Pack, in their signature Cards’ hats that Papa gave them.

The rainy day fort… complete with every pillow from our condo, three sleeping bags and two lacrosse sticks, which were used as guns for protection from the rogue pre-schooler running around.

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photo of the day no. 5

This photo, hands down, was my favorite photo of the day.  hardy-har-har.  My big girl, Nanny and my nephew Miles road the roller coaster last nite. and it was the talk of the evening.   There’s just something about the unbridled excitement, the adrenaline rush of riding a roller coaster…  it seems reminiscent of my life- well, except much shorter.

I can’t help but think, when I look at this picture to get my hands up and enjoy the ride- ’cause it’ll be over before I know it!

 

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photos of the day no. 4

well, I couldn’t choose, so here are three photos from day 4….

There are some things money can’t buy (pictured below)- and then there are some things completely worth every penny (see #2):

1. good times with fun cousins…

2. a hot and de-lish fried bologna sandwich from the Hot Diggity Diner (dad and I both had one…it lends new meaning to the words “full of bologna”)

3. time, with a sweet baby girl who is growing up too fast.

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photo of the day. no. 3

(my apologies for being so late posting the photo from day 3 of our vacation. – the internet connection here was non existent this morning.)

Before there were kids, and diapers and laundry and grocery shopping and grown-up responsibilities galore, there were two little girls.  sisters.  Marilyn and Melody.

But these days – this is life : husbands and kids, with plenty of craziness to go ’round. And our family vacation is a time to celebrate – memories from the past,  the gift of the present, and what is to come.  The mountains, the valleys and everything in between: All goodness from a Heavenly Father!

And here we are: crowded together on this bench.  a whole lot of happiness.

from left to right: Maggie, Melody, Mackenzie, Isaac, Marilyn, Miles, Max, Emily.

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Photo of the day (no.2)

Yesterday, our second day at the beach, was monumental.  My sweet boy, with huge proportions of courage, boogie boarded in the ocean.  alone. no hand holding.  no standing on the edge.  With major amounts of vigor he faced the sea by himself – and was quite successful.

and oh the joy of conquering your own worst enemy!

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photo of the day. no. 1

Welcome to the family beach trip in North Myrtle Beach…

Sometimes you just need a good, hardy, belly laugh.  And good times, on vacation with family can be just the thing to facilitate…

And so, I give you the first photo of the day from our week away… Enjoy!